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“TRUE LOVE ( SAYA MENCARI ISTRI YANG SETIA UNTUK SUAMI KU ) "
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Awal nya ku beranggapan “CINTA SEJATI” hanya berlaku dalam cerita
dongeng atau serial drama. Namun, anggapan ku tentang semua itu terpatahkan
ketika ku menyaksikan sebuah video di
youtube yang di suguhkan oleh dosen tercinta TIK ku , “Aku mencari istri yang setia untuk suamiku “ yap itulah judul
video yang saya dan teman satu kelas saya tonton . Memang dari judul nya saja TRAGIS, Apakah ada seorang stri yang
rela mencari istri yang baru untuk suami nya?,sedangkan usia pernikahan mereka
dapat dikatakan baru seumur jagung ?, sedangkan mereka berdua saling mencintai
satu sama lain?.WOW semua pertanyaan itu yang ada di benak ku seolah terenyah
bagaikan di samabar petir di siang hari.
Kisah cinta mengharukan ini datang dari sebuah acara televisi di China. Dalam
tayangan video tersebut, tampil seorang wanita yang memohon bantuan penonton
untuk mencarikan suaminya kekasih baru. Wanita itu menderita tumor otak stadium
akhir . Wanita bernama Ying Feng tersebut tampil di acara iDream of China.
Acara yang diproduksi Zhejiang Satellite Television itu tayang sejak 2011.
Program televisi tersebut memberikan kesempatan pada siapapun yang ingin
mewujudkan impiannya. Peserta harus menceritakan kisah mereka pada sebuah panel
yang terdiri dari sponsor, bintang tamu spesial dan 300 penonton. Jika sponsor
menganggap cerita peserta itu menarik, mereka akan membantu mewujudkan mimpi
tersebut. Namun sebelumnya untuk membuat impian itu terjadi, peserta harus
mendapat persetujuan dari 240 dari 300 penonton yang hadir.sungguh tidak masuk
akal bukan,seorang istri mencari istri yang baru lagi untuk suami yang di
cintai nya.
Menurut ku
tindakan yang di lakukan oleh Ying Feng patut di contoh ,karena menurut
ku jika kita benar – benar mencintai seseorang kita harus menjaga,merawat,menyayangi
dengan sepenuh hati sampai kita tidak ada di dunia yang fana ini alias
meninggal. Ying Feng rela mengikuti sebuah acara idream of china walaupun dalam
tayangan video tersebut suami Ying Feng tidak tau sebenar nya apa impian yang
di inginkan oleh Ying Feng, Ying Feng menceritakan kepada penonton bahwa dia
menderita penyakit Tumor otak stadium empat atau akhir . Ia mengatakan bahwa ia
tidak rela jika tidak ada yang merawat dan menjaga suami nya jika operasi yang
di lakukan Ying Feng gagal.Untuk itulah ia mencari istri yang baru walaupun
menurut ku terkesan lebay karena di siarkan di media atau di publikasikan ke
khalayak ramai.
Nah ,cerita mengharukan Ying Feng bermula dari
pertemuannya dengan suaminya, Haibin Yang yang berprofesi sebagai pegawai
kantor pos. Keduanya bertemu di sebuah rumah sakit. Wanita 23 tahun itu dirawat
di rumah sakit karena menderita tumor otak stadium empat yang berarti stadium
tertinggi atau kritis. Sementara Haibin dirawat karena kecelakaan.
Perkenalan mereka berawal dari sebuah aplikasi situs jejaring sosial. Saat
tidak bisa tidur dia akan berselancar di dunia maya dengan bermain-main di
situs jejaring sosial tersebut. Situs jejaring sosial itu memiliki fitur yang
bisa membuat pengguna tahu siapa saja orang di sekitar mereka juga sedang
online. Dari sanalah dia bisa menemukan Haibin.
Keesokan harinya Ying dan Haibin bertemu di rumah sakit. Panah asmara langsung
tertancap pada keduanya. Haibin menyatakan cintanya pada Ying. Meskipun sangat
menyukai pria tersebut, Ying menolak perasaan cinta Haibin karena sadar pada
kondisi kesehatannya. Penolakan tersebut tidak diterima sang pria. Dia tetap
bersikukuh menjadikan Ying kekasih. Satu bulan setelah ditolak, dia kembali
datang ke rumah sakit tempat Ying dirawat. Kali ini dia membawa megaphone dan
menyatakan cintanya serta melamar.
Secara diam-diam, tanpa sepengetahuan orangtua Haibin, pasangan yang dimabuk
cinta itu mendaftarkan pernikahan mereka pada September 2013 lalu. Pernikahan
tanpa restu itu akhirnya ketahuan juga dan orangtua Haibin menolak anaknya
menikah dengan wanita yang sakit parah. Meski demikian Haibin bertekad
mempertahankan pernikahannya dengan Ying. Dia sampai bersimpuh seharian memohon
agar orangtuanya memberi restu. Dan pada akhirnya restu tersebut didapatkannya.
Keduanya pun benar-benar resmi menikah pada 2 Maret 2014 lalu.
Saat menceritakan mengenai rencana operasinya, Ying
terkesan optimis dan ceria, dia tetap memiliki kekhawatiran. Dan kekhawatiran
itu bukan tentang kesempatan hidupnya, melainkan mengenai ketakutannya
kehilangan suami yang dicintainya dengan sangat. Selama ini suaminya sudah
begitu baik padanya. Setiap hari Haibin dengan setia merawatnya saat dia dalam
kondisi terpuruk. Pria tersebut menggendongnya naik-turun tangga dan
membantunya mencuci kakinya setiap hari. Dia ingin membalas kebaikan suaminya
itu dengan memberikan pendamping baru pada pria itu jika saja dia tidak selamat
setelah menjalani operasi.
Kisah cinta tanpa syarat,kisah cinta yang benar-benar
kisah cinta sejati,kisah cinta cetar membahana badai gilak ,kisah cinta buta
,ya atau kisah cinta apalah-apalah pokok nya patut di contoh oleh pasangan
kekasih baik yang udah nikah maupun yang belum ,,, yang jomblo jangan contoh
loh ,soal nya gak punya pasangan :P hehehe
Baiklah apa yang dilakukan oleh Haibin untuk
mencintai istri nya sebut saja dia Ying Feng dengan mencintai seluruh nya baik
kelebihan maupun kekurangan nya patut di acungkan jempol. Cinta sejati antara Haibin dan Ying Feng menurut ku
sudah jarang sekali di jumpai di saat ini. Karena zaman sekarang sih menurut ku
mencintai seseorang di lihat dari kelebihan nya aja contoh mencintai seseorang
karena dia cantik,ganteng,kaya atau yang apalah-apalah . itulah alasan mengapa
selama 19 tahun ini aku masih belum mendapatkan seseorang yang cucok markotop
di hatiku ( SORRY,KOK MALAH CURHAT SIH ,HEHEHE ) .
Yah gini deh aku kasih beberapa kata-kata tentang
cinta ,ASYIK ( Padahal single tuh )
Oke lah ,
1. Jika
kita mencintai seseorang jangan melihat dari kelebihan nya saja dari pasangan
kita namun kita juga harus menerima kekurangan nya meskipun dalam bentuk
apalah-apalah ( apapun )
2. Kekurangan
yang dimiliki oleh pasangana kita jangan jadikan sebuah beban bagi kita,malah
kita harus menutupi kekurangan pasangan kita dengan kelebihan yang kita miliki.
Seperti kisah cinta romantis nya ROMEO AND JULIET nya versi china yaitu kisah
cinta Haibin dan Ying .
3. Malasah
atau kesedihan yang di miliki oleh pasangan kita jadikan sebagai masalah atau
kesedihan kita juga , yah kalau pasangan kita lagi sedih ya di hibur atau kalau
pasanagan kita punya masalah cobalah untuk menyelesaikan nya dengan bersama
–sama .seperti masalah yang di hadapi Ying yang berjuang mati-matian untuk bisa
menyebuhkan penyakit Tumor nya,pasangan nya rela berjuang untuk membiayai operasi istrinya tersebut dengan
menjual sebuah satu-satu nya rumah yang ia miliki.
4. Kalau
kita benar-benar cinta sama orang perjuangin seluruh nya bahakan sampai mati.
5. Yang
terakhir kalau kita cinta sama seseorang jangan terlalu cinta berlebihan
sampai-sampai rasa cinta kita sama ALLAH SWT
malah berkurang dan berfokous pada cinta sama pasangan kita . jadikan
cinta kita kepada pasangan adalah wujud rasa syukur kepada ALLAH SWT karena
telah memberikan suatu cinta yang bermakana yang tidak hanya cinta kepada yang
menciptakan kita tetapi cinta terhadap sesama makhluk nya ,termasuk cinta kita
terhadap pasangan.
6. Kalau
bisa kisah cinta yang kita miliki dengan pasangan kita jangan di umbar-umbar di
media sosial karena menurut ku terkesan lebay dan menurut ku tidak pantas untuk
di konsumsi untuk khalayak ramai yah mungkin karena kita bukan selebritis
terkenal.
Yah itulah sedikit cerita cinta (
Bohong , padahal banyak cerita nya )
yang aku ceritakan kepada pembaca setia blog ku . nah aku harapin
mudah-mudahan yang single terutama jomblo untuk tidak berputus asa untuk
mencari cinta yang benar-benar sejati di zaman baholak sekarang ini. Jangan
pesimis dan jangan pantang menyerah
untuk menemukan cinta sejati ya
...karena aku juga tidak akan menyerah juga untuk menemukan cinta sejati (
Loh,malah CURCOL lagi ). Ya udah lah hehe ...
Nah,kalau teman-teman pada mau menyaksikan video tentang kisah cinta sejati ini ,aku akan memeberikan link nya secara GRUATISSS TIS TIS TISSSS ,ini dia :
BYYEEEEE..
Minggu, 03 Mei 2015
"labyrinth"
“The only way out of the labyrinth of suffering is to forgive. There
are so many of us who will have to live with things done and things left
undone. Things that did not go right, things that seemed okay at the time
because we could not see the future. If only we could see the endless string of
consequences that result from our smallest actions.” – John
Green, Looking For Alaska
But life only moves
forward, and once the doors of yesterday are closed, there is no going
back. We are human—imperfect beings bound to make mistakes. Our mistakes are
necessary, vital for our growth, understanding of life, and journey of
self-discovery.
There will always be
people in life who will hurt us and let us down; they’re human too. We
think that by holding onto our feelings of hate and anger that we are damaging
those who have pained us, but in reality we are only furthering our own
pain—only extending our stay in the labyrinth.
To forgive does not
mean to forget. It simply means to let go. To let go of what has happened in the past,
to release yourself of the damaging feelings, and to be free of the hurt.
Shame and hate
directed towards oneself keeps us prisoners to the labyrinth for the
longest. There will always be times in our life when our performance will
fall short of the expectation, whether they be our own hopes or those of
someone else.
We can choose to let
shame and sadness consume us because we didn’t “do it right”, because we
"could have done better”, because it wasn’t perfect. Or we can acknowledge
that in life, nothing is everlasting. That opportunities are given to us
everyday, each moment, and forgiveness of our mistakes gives way for their
presence in our lives.
But most of all, we
can choose to forgive ourselves.
To treat our hurting
soul like an old friend, with warmth, compassion, and understanding. You
can choose to learn from the hurt, gain strength from the pain, and utilize the
sour of the situation to truly appreciate the sweet of happiness.
You can choose to
forgive and to let go. Your attitude is yours for the choosing.
We may play a major
role in bringing ourselves into the labyrinth of suffering, but we are also the
key that leads to the way out.
ED SHEERAN LYRICS
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When your legs don't work like they used to before
And I can't sweep you off of your feet
Will your mouth still remember the taste of my love?
Will your eyes still smile from your cheeks?
And, darling, I will be loving you 'til we're 70
And, baby, my heart could still fall as hard at 23
And I'm thinking 'bout how people fall in love in mysterious ways
Maybe just the touch of a hand
Well, me - I fall in love with you every single day
And I just wanna tell you I am
So honey now
Take me into your loving arms
Kiss me under the light of a thousand stars
Place your head on my beating heart
I'm thinking out loud
Maybe we found love right where we are
When my hair's all but gone and my memory fades
And the crowds don't remember my name
When my hands don't play the strings the same way (mmm...)
I know you will still love me the same
'Cause honey your soul could never grow old, it's evergreen
And, baby, your smile's forever in my mind and memory
I'm thinking 'bout how people fall in love in mysterious ways
Maybe it's all part of a plan
Well, I'll just keep on making the same mistakes
Hoping that you'll understand
That, baby, now
Take me into your loving arms
Kiss me under the light of a thousand stars
Place your head on my beating heart
Thinking out loud
Maybe we found love right where we are (oh ohh)
La la la la la la la la la
So, baby, now
Take me into your loving arms
Kiss me under the light of a thousand stars
Oh, darling, place your head on my beating heart
I'm thinking out loud
Maybe we found love right where we are
Oh, baby, we found love right where we are
And we found love right where we are
And I can't sweep you off of your feet
Will your mouth still remember the taste of my love?
Will your eyes still smile from your cheeks?
And, darling, I will be loving you 'til we're 70
And, baby, my heart could still fall as hard at 23
And I'm thinking 'bout how people fall in love in mysterious ways
Maybe just the touch of a hand
Well, me - I fall in love with you every single day
And I just wanna tell you I am
So honey now
Take me into your loving arms
Kiss me under the light of a thousand stars
Place your head on my beating heart
I'm thinking out loud
Maybe we found love right where we are
When my hair's all but gone and my memory fades
And the crowds don't remember my name
When my hands don't play the strings the same way (mmm...)
I know you will still love me the same
'Cause honey your soul could never grow old, it's evergreen
And, baby, your smile's forever in my mind and memory
I'm thinking 'bout how people fall in love in mysterious ways
Maybe it's all part of a plan
Well, I'll just keep on making the same mistakes
Hoping that you'll understand
That, baby, now
Take me into your loving arms
Kiss me under the light of a thousand stars
Place your head on my beating heart
Thinking out loud
Maybe we found love right where we are (oh ohh)
La la la la la la la la la
So, baby, now
Take me into your loving arms
Kiss me under the light of a thousand stars
Oh, darling, place your head on my beating heart
I'm thinking out loud
Maybe we found love right where we are
Oh, baby, we found love right where we are
And we found love right where we are
Sabtu, 02 Mei 2015
20 things I should have known at 20.
Okay. The title makes this post seem kind of weird because I still have a long way to go before I reach the age of 20. However, this doesn’t really have anything to do with being 20 years old. I was browsing the other night when I came across this blog post. I think there are some pretty good life lessons that can be applied by anyone, especially for the youngsters just like me. So I thought I might share the 20 things with all of you.
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1. The world is trying to keep you stupid. From bank fees to
interest rates to miracle diets, people who are not
educated are
easier to get money from and easier to lead. Educate yourself as much as
possible for wealth, independence, and happiness.
2. Do not have faith in institutions to educate you. By the time they
build the curriculum, it’s likely that the system is outdated– sometimes
utterly broken. You both learn and get respect from
people worth getting it from by leading and doing, not by following.
3. Read as much as you can. Learn to speed
read with high retention. Emerson Spartz taught me this
while I was at a Summit Series event. If he reads
2-3 books a week, you can read one.
4. Connect with everyone, all the time. Be genuine about
it. Learn to find something you like in each person, and then speak to that
thing.
5. Don’t waste time being shy. Shyness is the
belief that your emotions should be the arbitrators of your decision making
process when the opposite is actually
true.
6. If you feel weird about something during a relationship,
that’s usually what you end up breaking up over.
7. Have as much contact as possible with older people. Personally, I met
people at Podcamps. My friend Greg, at the age of 13, met
his first future employer sitting next to him on a plane. The reason this is so
valuable is because people your age don’t usually have the decision-making
ability to help you very much. Also they know almost everything you will learn
later, so ask them.
8. Find people that are cooler than you and hang out with
them too. This and the corollary are both important: “don’t attempt to be
average inside your group. Continuously attempt to be cooler than them (by
doing cooler things, being more laid back, accepting, ambitious, etc.).”
9. You will become more conservative over time. This is just a
fact. Those you surround yourself with create a kind of “bubble” that pushes
you to support the status quo. For this reason, you need to do your craziest
stuff NOW. Later on, you’ll become too afraid. Trust me.
10. Reduce all expenses as much as possible. I mean it. This
creates a safety net that will allow you to do the crazier shit I mentioned above.
11. Instead of getting status through objects (which provide
only temporary boosts), do
it through experiences. In other words, a trip to Paris is a
better choice than a new wardrobe. Studies show this also boosts happiness.
12. While you are living on the cheap, solve the money problem. Use the internet,
because it’s like a cool little machine that helps you do your bidding. If you
are currently living paycheck to paycheck, extend that to three weeks instead
of two. Then, as you get better, you can think a month ahead, then three
months, then six, and finally a year ahead. (The goal is to get to a point
where you are thinking 5 years ahead.)
14. Get a six-pack (or get thin,
whatever your goal is) while
you are young. Your hormones are in a better place to help you
do this at a younger age. Don’t waste this opportunity, trust me.
15. Learn to cook. This will make everything much easier and it turns food
from a chore + expensive habit into a pleasant + frugal one. I’m a big Jamie
Oliver fan, but whatever you like is fine.
16. Sleep well. This and cooking will help with the six pack. If you think
“I can sleep when I’m dead” or “I have too much to do to sleep,” I have news
for you: you are INEFFICIENT, and sleep deprivation isn’t helping.
17. Get a reminder app for everything. Do not trust your own
brain for your memory. Do not trust it for what you “feel like” you should be
doing. Trust only the reminder app. I use RE.minder and Action Method.
18. Choose something huge to do, as well as allowing
the waves of opportunity to help you along. If you don’t set goals, some stuff may happen, but if you do choose, lots more will.
19. Get known for one thing. Spend like 5 years
doing it instead of flopping around all over the place. If you want to shift
afterwards, go ahead. Like I said, choose something.
20. Don’t try to “fix” anyone. Instead, look for
someone who isn’t broken.
Written by: Julian Smith
"‘My right to love"
It’s not all about sex
It’s about companionship
It’s about love.
My right to love
My right to be loved
My right to love whosoever I want to
My right to be loved by whosoever I want…
A question…
Aren’t we all living to earn love?
I am living to earn much more love
I yearn to be a better human everyday so that I am loved
I am loved more and more
In my lifetime and even after I die
Can you think of a thing above love?
Respect, that comes out of love.
Admiration, that’s another form of love.
Popularity, only if more and more people love.
Money, it has bought all but love.
When it’s all about love
Then let’s be human, play equal
Act modern, be liberal.
You love whosoever you like
Let me love whosoever I like
Let’s not complicate things which are so obvious, so natural.
